Ironically enough with all the things I've been reading and thinking about, last night I ran into an old friend of mine who at a different point in time delivered some of the most memorable experiences I've had with corporal punishment and D/s. I'll admit, I still think about the things that happened between us and in our household, although it probably would not be good or appropriate to open that can of worms with him again.
It's difficult for me not to push for it, in a way, because we were very connected at the time and the moments we shared were quite intense. I'll never forget a caning I got from him, when a room mate walked in and told him not to stop on his account. Because there was a deep friendship between all of us it was both comfortable and somehow terribly embarrassing to have the lengthy ass whupping that followed witnessed by the other friend, who I soon discovered had not only known it was going on, but made the less than subtle suggestion hours before it happened that I could probably use it! They insisted I keep my eyes forward, which became difficult as I realized that the room mate that had just walked in was actually giving him pointers and teaching him how to do it better! Suddenly things went frrom a mild and playful 'bondage fun night' to me seeing stars as the rain of blows became mercilessly quick and sharp with precision. It would have continued for some time longer, I'm sure, but the cane broke! I was then taught that anytime something breaks or gets damaged like that it's my responsibility to replace it. I was also told with a wicked gentleness not to worry, because our neighborhood was full of green bamboo!
That was one out of many moments we shared, which I will admit were good for me in their time.... some of which I hated to love, and some of which I loved to hate. Sometimes I miss living in a household with an understated element of D/s that occasionally turned into something real and interesting. I learned a lot and shared a lot that was meaningful to me in it's context.
The reality however is that even though part of it was a good situation that helped me to grow in many ways, the situation as it stood outlived it's usefulness.
Some of it might be entertaining to write about, or at least elements of those situations as part of crafting other stories. That I did, in fact follow directions and go cut myself several bamboo switches the next day, for instance... gives me a definitive perspective on what it's like to be in that position.
That off my chest, I also have worked on rebuilding more of this blog. There's another racy story on the M/f spanking stories page, from one of the BDSM erotic fiction ebooks I did. It's about a young woman who gets caught looking at spanking videos at work, and how her boss decides to deal with the incident appropriately. LOL. "Let the Punishment Fit the Crime".
I also added a page for BDSM humor, and posted "The Politically Correct Domination Fantasy". You'll find links on the right side of this page to check out the changes and new additions. Enjoy!
